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Why Porn Is Not Good For Your Relationship

Are addicted to porn? Do you feel the need to watch pornographic materials so as to be sexually aroused? Or do you know someone who is hooked on porn?

If you answered yes to any of the questions above, you might want to read the entire post because porn could take a negative toll on your relationship with your spouse.

Imagine being on a roller-coaster for 5 years; experiencing the twists, curves, bends and pulsation in your stomach the whole period. And then you get off. Imagine if you have to ride on the swing on the children’s playground. You will agree with me that you will feel nearly nothing, if anything at all. This is because your body has become used to the up-and-down sensation.

This is the same problem you face when you engage in porn. Your body gets used to the visual sensation which in-turn causes a physical change in your mind through a process of desensitization. Desensitization affects soft sexual touches from your partner as you are unable to become aroused like you used to. Because your body has become used to such ‘high speed’ sexual imagery (and in most cases, will cause you to masturbate), you will find it hard to respond to sensation that are ‘lower’ in sensation.

If you want to bring back the spice and connectedness you once enjoyed with your partner, I suggest you stay completely away from porn. Another thing to avoid is sex aids and toys. The reason is simple, as soon as your body gets used to the sensations of these aids, you will no longer be turned on by what usually turned you on.

In a world where we are constantly bombarded by the need to have more – more sex, more orgasms, more sexual encounters etc – perhaps it is time you redefined what is really important. Is “more” really better? Maybe just being able to connect, to be intimate, to be expressive, to be responsive and to be present is all that is necessary.

As  usual, I am eager to read your comments or stories regarding this post.

Get the spark back into your relationship.

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One comment on “Why Porn Is Not Good For Your Relationship

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